So you have done everything you can to make your ex go back to you but your efforts still seem pointless and getting nowhere. If that is the case, you should start using psychological means to get to him/her back in no time. Here are the four magically effective psychological tricks you can use to get your ex back.
Suddenly change your game plan - If you have been spending your time pleading, convincing, luring and begging your ex to notice you and come back to no avail, it's time to change your course. Instead of wasting more time in trying to contact him, stop all efforts in doing so. Instead, disappear from his reach for at least 3 weeks. The ex will start thinking that he/she has successfully gotten rid of you, but eventually miss the attention you so generously provided. Being out of range from your ex without giving him any news about you also makes him wonder and worry about you.
Change yourself - Making yourself more attractive and not neglecting your appearance can make you feel better about yourself despite the fact that you're feeling miserable because of the breakup. As much as possible, don't show any traces of misery on your face, on the way you are dressed, and on how you carry yourself. Getting a makeover also giver your ex the idea that you're looking forward to a happier life so he/she will start doubting the decision to break up with you.
Start dating again - Since you are single, join the dating scene again. Date a lot of people and make sure that every time your see your ex, there is a new person with you. This makes your ex feel that he or she is missing out a great deal of fun and excitement without you, motivating he/she to make the first move to get you back in his/her life.
Give a deadline - Make it clear to you and your ex's common friends that you are regretting the breakup and that you still have feelings for your ex. Make it known to him/her that if your ex still cannot decide whether to get you back or not, then you will be moving on for good.
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